About Kendhal
About Kendhal
Why I Do This Work
I became a therapist because I struggled with depression as a teenager and felt deeply alone and unsupported. For much of my life, I carried a sense of being different without having a clear language for why.
My exploration of autism began with my son, who was diagnosed first. As I moved through that process with him, I saw many of my own experiences reflected to me. For my 40th birthday, I received my own autism diagnosis. This is something I’m still unpacking as I learn more about what it means for me and how it has shaped my life, relationships, and work.
Throughout my training and professional life, I often found myself having to integrate complex material on my own when it wasn’t delivered in ways that matched how my brain processes information. I learned to adapt, compensate, and translate—skills that were hard-earned, sometimes exhausting, and ultimately formative. Over time, those experiences became the foundation of how I teach.
I’m deeply invested in bridging the gap between complex clinical models and how people actually learn. The way I teach is shaped by years of having to make sense of material without sufficient structure or support—and a commitment to doing better for others.
Who I Work With
I primarily work with clinicians.
Most of my clients, consultees, and students are therapists, trainers, and educators who want to deepen their clinical work, integrate EMDR and Internal Family Systems (IFS), or learn how to teach and consult more effectively.
You may be:
A clinician integrating EMDR and IFS in real-world practice
A therapist who wants more clarity, structure, and confidence
A trainer or educator seeking to make your teaching more accessible
A seasoned clinician feeling overwhelmed or under-supported
Someone who wants to deepen both your clinical skill and self-understanding
Even when I work with individuals in therapy or psychedelic preparation and integration, many of those clients are clinicians themselves. I’m comfortable naming that I am, in many ways, a therapist for therapists.
How I Approach My Work
In my work with you, I prioritize clarity, pacing, and choice.
You’ll notice that I:
Make expectations explicit
Slow things down when needed
Offer structure without rigidity
Translate complex material into usable clinical language
Respect different nervous systems and learning styles
Meet you where you are in your journey, not where you “should” be
Whether I’m providing therapy, consultation, or training, my goal is to help you become more of who you already are, with greater flexibility, confidence, and self-leadership.
I don’t believe in forcing people into models. I believe in adapting models to people.
Seeing Patterns, Translating Experience
I experience the world in a highly sensory way, which allows me to track emotional, somatic, relational, and cognitive information simultaneously. In clinical and consultation settings, this often shows up as an ability to hold the bigger picture, how different elements of a system fit together over time.
Because of my own learning history, I’m especially attentive to moments where clinicians feel overwhelmed, lost, or unsure how to organize what they’re noticing. I work to translate complexity into language, structure, and frameworks that are usable in real clinical work, without flattening or oversimplifying the material.
This ability supports my work in therapy, consultation, and teaching: taking lived, sensory experience and turning it into something that can be understood, taught, and applied with confidence.
Ways You Might Work With Me
You might work with me through:
Clinician trainings
Each offering is designed with accessibility, clarity, and depth in mind
Ongoing Work Matters
Being an effective therapist, consultant, and educator requires ongoing personal and professional work.
In addition to teaching and consultation, I continue to engage in regular clinical work with clients. Staying connected to direct clinical practice matters to me. It keeps my work grounded, relevant, and responsive to what’s actually happening in therapy rooms.
I’m also continually engaged in:
My own therapy
Peer consultation and collegial dialogue
Ongoing continuing education
Regular reflection with close friends (all of whom are also therapists!)
Psychedelic work, including psilocybin journeys twice a year, as part of my own self-study and integration
This ongoing learning isn’t an add-on; it’s central to how I show up in all areas of my work.
Professional Background & Credentials
My work is grounded in extensive clinical, teaching, and supervisory experience, including:
EMDRIA-Approved Consultant
EMDRIA-Approved Provider of EMDR Basic Training
IFS Institute Level 3 Trained
IFS Certified Therapist
IFS Institute-Approved Clinical Consultant
Doctorate in Psychology
Master's in Counseling
Advanced training in trauma and integrative treatment models
Over a decade of experience supervising and consulting with clinicians
International teaching experience across the U.S., Canada, and Europe
I am the author of Treating Trauma with EMDR and IFS: A Clinician’s Guide to Integrating Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy with Internal Family Systems published through New Harbinger.
What You Can Expect From Me
Whether you identify as neurodivergent, neurotypical, or haven’t spent much time thinking about how your mind works, my approach remains the same: to meet you where you are and help you make sense of what you’re experiencing.
I aim to create spaces where people feel seen, supported, and able to engage with complexity without feeling overwhelmed. My goal is to help you become more of who you want to be—clinically, professionally, and personally.
Why I Integrate EMDR and Internal Family Systems
My work is grounded in the thoughtful integration of EMDR and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Together, these models offer both structure and flexibility, allowing therapists to work with trauma in a precise, paced, and responsive way to the client’s internal system. EMDR provides a robust framework for reprocessing. At the same time, IFS supports safety, consent, and readiness by honoring the protective roles that parts play.
When well integrated, EMDR and IFS support deeper healing, reduce overwhelm, and help clients build lasting internal trust and Self-leadership.
Something I’m So Excited to Share…
My first book is now available!
Treating Trauma with EMDR and IFS
This book has been a true labor of love – written for therapists who want to confidently integrate EMDR and IFS to support their clients’ healing. It’s the first full-length book dedicated to this integration, and I can’t wait for you to have it in your hands.
I wrote it to offer practical guidance, deep insights, and real-world application to help you show up for your clients with clarity, skill, and compassion.
Order from Amazon (Amazon included for those needing international shipping or accessibility options.)
Thank you for being part of this journey with me!
Therapy & Additional Support
While most of my work focuses on training, consulting, and professional development for clinicians, I also offer limited therapy-related services and referrals.
Therapy Intensives (Limited Availability)
In addition to training and consultation, I offer short-term EMDR + IFS therapy intensives, primarily for therapists seeking focused, depth-oriented personal work.
This work is time-limited and intentional, centered on specific parts of your system you want support with during this phase of your journey.
Availability is limited and assessed for fit.
Referrals for Ongoing Therapy
I am not currently accepting new clients for ongoing therapy. If you’re looking for continued therapeutic support, I’m happy to share referrals to trusted clinicians whose work I respect:
Kristie Boggs, LPC – Licensed in Texas; offers EMDR and EMDR + IFS intensives
Alyce Messer, LCSW-S – Licensed in Texas
Amanda Steed, LCSW – Licensed in Texas, Colorado, and Washington
Emerald Stanton, LCSW – Licensed in California, Texas, Nevada, and Utah; offers EMDR and EMDR + IFS intensives
Carlee Shalchian, LMFT – Licensed in California
These clinicians are experienced, thoughtful, and aligned with the integrative work I value.
Psychedelic Preparation & Integration Support
I also offer psychedelic preparation and integration support for clinicians and non-clinicians who are engaging with or considering work with medicines such as ketamine, psilocybin, or MDMA.
These sessions are trauma-informed and grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR, with a focus on helping you engage your internal system with greater clarity, safety, and self-leadership.
Preparation sessions may support you in:
Clarifying intentions
Understanding and working with protective parts
Building internal resourcing before a journey
Integration sessions support you in:
Making sense of what emerged
Processing insights or difficult material
Integrating experiences into daily life in meaningful ways
I do not facilitate psychedelic journeys directly. My role is to support preparation and integration so that these experiences can be approached thoughtfully and integrated responsibly.
Featured Podcast Conversations
I’m regularly invited into conversations about EMDR, Internal Family Systems, trauma treatment, and clinician education.
The One Inside Podcast with Tammy Sollenberger — Living IFS in the Real World
The Affirming Minds Podcast with Shaina Sanchez — Internal Family Systems
Empowered Through Compassion - Helping Through Structure — Navigating Trauma with EMDR + IFS
Let’s Talk EMDR, Episode 9 — EMDR Therapy and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
If you’re interested in inviting me onto your podcast or into a speaking or training event, feel free to reach out.